Altra Realta, вот и я не помню, где конкретно было, но было 100% =)
Про субкультуры - кто-то понимает, что люди самовыражаются и нормально относится (если люди без фанатизма, но фанатизм, к чему бы он не относился, довольно фиговое явление), а у Дурслей именно на грани отторжения идёт. И поэтому у них немного дальше зашло, чем у большинства людей, ИМХО. И да, про защиту-то я и забыла совсем то-то. Но, думаю, при желании, можно договориться было. Но это не очень важно, если честно, и в этом плане мне лениво продумывать что было бы, если.
Про Лэйнор и пределы прочности понимаю прекрасно. И очень круто, что вы тоже это знаете и, видимо, игнорировать не будете =)
Чёрт его знает, что там делал Аберфорт, но он точно не так прост.
http://www.accio-quote.org/articles/2004/0804-ebf.htm - вот тут есть про портрет.
"All the paintings we have seen at Hogwarts are of dead people. They seem to be living through their portraits. How is this so? If there was a painting of Harry’s parents, would he be able to obtain advice from them?

That is a very good question. They are all of dead people; they are not as fully realised as ghosts, as you have probably noticed. The place where you see them really talk is in Dumbledore’s office, primarily; the idea is that the previous headmasters and headmistresses leave behind a faint imprint of themselves. They leave their aura, almost, in the office and they can give some counsel to the present occupant, but it is not like being a ghost. They repeat catchphrases, almost. The portrait of Sirius’ mother is not a very 3D personality; she is not very fully realised. She repeats catchphrases that she had when she was alive. If Harry had a portrait of his parents it would not help him a great deal. If he could meet them as ghosts, that would be a much more meaningful interaction, but as Nick explained at the end of Phoenix—I am straying into dangerous territory, but I think you probably know what he explained—there are some people who would not come back as ghosts because they are unafraid, or less afraid, of death."